I was discussing the Prop 8 decision with my childhood pastor last night. He was telling me about an old men's prayer group that has met weekly since the dawn of time. One of them asked the pastor what he'd do if a gay couple and their kid wanted to join the church. The pastor, knowing that this could be a hot-button issue, said "Well, I'd welcome them just like anybody else, and show them how to enroll their kid in Sunday School."
He waited for a long while as the old guys considered that, and then one said "Good. That's how it should be," and they all agreed.
Regarding his denomination's stance against gay marriage, the pastor said to me (and I quote): "That's BULLSHIT!"
hahaha! Love him.